jdhmnovel Chapter 380 I will also prepare as soon as possible!
Chapter 380 I will also prepare as soon as possible!
When Su Yunyun heard Jiang Lingling's question, she looked up at her, then saw Gao Xiuyu and Yu Lan with panic in their eyes, and sighed inwardly.
After all, as a military dependent, she is more experienced and has more say than the two future military dependents in front of her. She said some things in advance so that they can prepare in advance to avoid any extreme reactions when they are in front of her, which will not only be bad for herself, but also affect the state of Ning Wei and Fang Jie during the mission, resulting in a lose-lose situation!
Moreover, she was the matchmaker and had the responsibility and obligation to discuss this matter thoroughly with them.
"Bitter? That depends on how you think!" Su Yunyun smiled. "If you want to be together day and night, inseparable, stick together, and live like an ordinary couple, then you might find it bitter! But he is a soldier. I knew this identity from the beginning. Since they are soldiers, it is their responsibility to defend the country. Without them charging on the front line, how can we live peacefully here? So I have already prepared for less time together and more time apart, so I don't feel bitter!"
"But he is often not at home. Don't you feel lonely?" After asking this question, Jiang Lingling deliberately glanced at Yu Lan and Gao Xiu Yu because she saw their reactions. However, from her own perspective, since she has been surrounded by military families since she was a child, and seeing their lives, sometimes she really feels that their lives are very hard and lonely. So when Su Yunyun suggested introducing someone, Ning Wei and Fang Jie were not within her consideration.
But now, three of her roommates are dating soldiers. Among them, Su Yunyun is already married to a soldier. She seems to be living a happy life, so she hopes that the other two roommates can be happy too. So she took this opportunity to ask Su Yunyun more, so that Yu Lan and Gao Xiu Yu can also know what the daily life of military families is like. They can not have the same illusions as ordinary couples, and can also be mentally prepared in advance.
"I feel lonely!" Su Yunyun sighed. "When I see other couples hanging out together, but I'm alone, I feel uncomfortable. And sometimes, when I do things, I have to do them all by myself because the person I can rely on is not around. I feel that my life is quite boring."
Yu Lan couldn't help but ask, "Do you regret it?"
Su Yunyun smiled, "No regrets!"
"Why?" Gao Xiu Yu was very hesitant after hearing what Su Yunyun said, so she wanted to know why she didn't regret it.
"Although he is not with me often, I know he has me in his heart. He feels guilty for not being able to be with me all the time, so once he has time, he will come back to accompany me and do everything he can. He also plans some unknown things in advance and helps me clear some obstacles." Su Yunyun thought of Han Sen's behavior with a sweet face. "Although I feel lonely in my daily life because of his absence, I don't use this time to feel sad. I will allocate my time well, study, live well, and do my best to improve myself and enrich myself so as not to fall behind. You must know that to love someone, you must first love yourself, so that you can have the ability to love him and love life better!"
"Love yourself first?" Yu Lan thought thoughtfully.
"Yes, you must learn to love yourself first. Only when you are well, you will have the confidence to treat him and life better, because you are not someone else's appendage. You will be happy when others are happy, and you will be sad when others are sad!" Su Yunyun is very confident. "So even though he is not by my side, I can arrange my own life. When he is not around, I am beautiful alone. When he comes back, we laugh together, and he will feel that I am getting better and better, so he will naturally take me to heart more. That's why I say I don't regret it!"
"Is this okay?" Gao Xiu Yu murmured to herself.
"Love is a two-way journey, not a one-man show," Su Yunyun thought for a moment and continued, "If there is a conflict between you, you must make it clear, because they are soldiers and don't have much private time, so don't guess and waste your precious time together. Also, when you become more and more outstanding, they will chase after you in return, instead of you giving up on yourself, having no personal color, and being the same as others!"
Yu Lan and Gao Xiuyu suddenly understood what was going on, and they started to joke with a smile, "Dating a military partner has so many advantages. Not only can you be happy, but it can also provide you with more room for advancement!"
Jiang Lingling laughed even louder, "Yunyun, after hearing what you said, I want to kick your brother out and ask you to introduce me to a soldier again!"
Gao Qianyun smiled and punched her when she heard that. "Be careful, Yunyun might hold a grudge against me. I won't answer your questions anymore!"
"That's right. Since you've talked to my brother, you've boarded our Su family's pirate ship. We won't let you get off halfway!" Su Yunyun raised her eyebrows deliberately. "I'll tell my brother that you have your own ideas and don't want him anymore!"
"Oh, please don't, please don't!" Jiang Lingling panicked when she heard that. "He's a jealous person, it's hard to appease him!"
"Oh, you're jealous?" After Yu Lan understood, she wanted to joke, "Tell me, why are you jealous?"
The five people started laughing.
When Su Yunyun saw that Yu Lan and Gao Xiu Yu showed no hesitation, she felt relieved and began to pay attention to the surrounding environment.
When she saw the red, yellow, blue, and white flowers in the flowerbed, which were in clusters and so beautiful, coupled with the laughter just now, the depression in her heart caused by Han Sen's departure dissipated, and she felt much happier.
White?
Su Yunyun suddenly had an idea, and quickly looked at Jiang Lingling and the other three in front of her, and found that their skin was much smoother and more translucent than before. Thinking of what Han Sen said in the afternoon that Lin's mother asked to send some more ointment over, she felt even better!
"Yunyun, what are you looking at?" Jiang Lingling saw Su Yunyun looking at the four of them with a smile on her face, and she was very curious.
"I see you are getting whiter!" Su Yunyun said with a smile.
"Yeah, when I went out with Fang Jie last Saturday, he said that I had become much whiter," Gao Xiuyu heard Su Yunyun say, and immediately remembered what Fang Jie said, "He also said that my skin is much better than before!"
"Ning Wei also said that I turned white!" Yu Lan said excitedly.
Su Yunyun looked at Jiang Lingling and Gao Qianyun, "Where are you two?"
"Your brother said I was pale!" Jiang Lingling rolled her eyes, but her face was full of shyness.
"Can't you see whether I'm white or not?" Gao Xianyu said with a smile.
"That's good, it means my ointment is effective," Su Yunyun clapped her hands excitedly, "I'll send you some more ointment later, you can continue to use it, and I'll also prepare the body lotion, soap and the like I mentioned earlier as soon as possible!"