jdhmnovel Chapter 397: Children's Education Issues
Chapter 397: Children's Education Issues
After Dabao’s episode was over, Mr. Huo welcomed them in first.
This yard was a wedding gift from the Ruan family to Ruanruan. When the yard was given to them, it was far from being as good as it is now. Later, Gu Wenzhen found someone to help them repair it. After Ruanruan and his family returned to the capital this year, they lived here for several months. In the front yard, Ruanruan planted some medicinal herbs and flowers for viewing. In the backyard, Wang Qun cleared two plots of land in the corner and planted some vegetables, which were just enough for her family to eat.
After entering the house, the families sat together in the pavilion in the yard and chatted for a while, then Gu Wenzhen and Zhou Lifang went to the kitchen to help Wang Qun.
Huo Haocheng also brought Huo Haojie, Ruan Shaoke and others to build a simple grill in the open space behind the kitchen, and then grilled the fish and a leg of lamb together.
Ruanruan, on the other hand, brought Dr. Jiang, Huo Yue, Qian Ling, Chaoxi, her cousin Gu Jingyan, and a few children into the house to chat.
"Cousin, I'm really sorry about what happened to Dabao just now." After entering the room and sitting down, Ruanruan put the melon seeds and peanuts she bought yesterday on a plate and placed it on the coffee table in the middle. She also poured them all a glass of water and said to her while handing the water to Dr. Jiang.
"Ruanruan, we know each other's personalities, and what happened between Dabao and Mumu was just a joke between children, so don't take it seriously. Don't take it to heart. In the future, talk to the children if there is anything." Doctor Jiang was really shocked by Ruanruan's behavior. Another thing was Huo Haocheng's attitude towards Dabao. They knew that Huo Haocheng doted on Ruanruan, but they didn't expect him to dote on her like this.
Given Huo Haocheng and Ruanruan’s personalities, how will they treat Dabao after they leave?
"Yeah, Ruanruan, I didn't expect that you would slap Dabao directly. What were you thinking at that time?" Gu Jingyan, who was sitting next to Jiang Yuli, was holding Xiao Mumu's hand to tease him. When he heard his sister-in-law say this, he also asked a question.
"Oh, I thought a lot at that time. First, when did Dabao learn to hit people? For their education, we have always been kind to them and never hit anyone. Second, he hit someone today. No matter who he hits, if we don't punish him today, he will think that his hitting behavior is tacitly approved by us, and he will definitely get worse in the future. The third thought is... I'm afraid that others will think that we didn't educate our child well and let him have a reputation for hitting people since he was a child. How bad is that!"
Speaking of this, Ruanruan was still a little angry. She didn't know who the child learned to hit others from. And when she was talking about it, she was also observing other people's reactions. Although everyone was a relative, there were still differences after all. She was afraid that someone would say to her face that it was nothing, that the child was young and didn't understand, but would then spread the matter everywhere.
People like this are really hard to guard against, and you can't follow them every day.
After hearing what Ruanruan said, everyone present looked at Dabao standing in the corner and the children beside him.
"You're right. Once a problem is discovered, no matter how big or small, he must be corrected in time." Doctor Jiang looked at her son, who had just been beaten and cried, and now followed Xiaobao to Dabao. In the past, she and Gu Jinghe were busy with work, and the child had always been taken care of by his grandmother. When the school was on vacation, his grandmother would take the child home to stay for a few days. Despite this, they still felt that they were busy with work and had no time to accompany the child, so they always felt indebted to him. As a result, the child developed a habit of crying whenever he was dissatisfied, because he knew that as soon as he cried, his grandparents would immediately hold him and coax him, and would also bring his favorite things to him.
"Yes, as the saying goes, a child's future can be seen at the age of three. It is still necessary to teach the child more when he is young." Gu Jingyan is not married yet, but her family has already started to find a date for her. However, she works in the Ministry of Foreign Affairs and usually follows her father. She is also busy with work, so her family has only talked about it and has not started any arrangements yet.
However, after Xiao Mumu came back these days, he was still very likable when he was not crying. It was just that this child loved to cry too much, especially at night when it was time to go to bed. When everyone went back to their rooms to sleep, he was still very energetic and wanted to play outside. If you didn’t take him out, he would start crying. But it was okay, because Gu Jinghe had been at home all this time, and he was the one who held the child and comforted him when he cried.
Just now, Huo Haocheng told Dabao to go back to his room by himself, and he went back to his room, looking back every few steps. Gu Jingyan thought that if her child was disobedient in the future, she would also learn to be as soft as Huo Haocheng.
"Yeah, I also hope that my child can be more obedient. If he doesn't listen, let our Fu Mingyi deal with him." Huo Yue thought that the way her elder brother and Ruanruan dealt with Dabao just now was so cool. Children should not be spoiled from a young age. He hits others, but he doesn't know how painful it is. Like Ruanruan, let him feel the feeling of being beaten directly, and see if he dares to hit others in the future.
"We don't even know if the baby in your belly is a son, or a daughter? If it's a daughter, you would be willing to beat her. Let me tell you, if what happened today happened to Xiaobao, do you think Huo Haocheng would treat Xiaobao like this?" Seeing them all say this, Ruanruan also observed that it was true. Dr. Jiang didn't care about Dabao beating Mumu, and they didn't really take it to heart. They also discussed the issue of children's education together. Ruanruan felt relieved and teased Huo Yue.
"It doesn't matter whether it's a son or a daughter, they are all my children anyway." Huo Yue said this, but she and Fu Mingyi had never discussed whether it was a son or a daughter in her belly. She also didn't know whether he liked a son or a daughter. Huo Yue thought she could ask him in the evening.
"That's right. It's just a piece of flesh that fell off your body. It's no reason not to feel pain. Besides, look at the loving attitude of your Huo Haocheng towards Xiaobao. He is really afraid that the child will melt if he holds him in his mouth, and afraid that the child will fall if he holds him in his hands. He certainly can't be mean to Xiaobao like he is to Dabao." They all saw how Huo Haocheng treated the children. So, if the situations were reversed, Huo Haocheng would definitely hold Xiaobao in his arms and comfort him at the first moment.
"Oh, by the way, Jingyan, last night, your mother came to my mother and said that she wanted to arrange a blind date for you. She also asked me if there were any suitable young talents around me. Did you know about this?" Speaking of children, Qian Ling suddenly thought of the fact that her second aunt came to see her mother yesterday, so she asked a question.
"I know. My mother told me about it a long time ago. It's not that I'm busy with work and don't have time to go see you. Now that she has less things to do, she has started to arrange it." Gu Jingyan also felt that her blind date was very shameless. Ever since Ruanruan got married, her mother started saying that Ruanruan was younger than her and that she only knew how to find an excellent man to keep by her side since she was a child. Then, when Ruanruan gave birth to twins, her mother scolded her again. Now, after Ruanruan moved back to the capital with Huo Haocheng this year, she could see the twins from time to time, and her mother urged her even more.
When she heard that her second aunt wanted to find a date for her cousin but there was no suitable candidate yet, the first person that Ruanruan thought of was Deng Yi. She felt that the two were a good match. Both families knew each other well, Deng Yi's family was simple, and Ruanruan had met Deng Yi's grandfather many times. If the two were to be together, it would be a good opportunity for them to hold the wedding since Deng Yi and his family would return to Beijing this year, which would also fulfill one of Grandpa Deng's wishes.
"Cousin, what do you think of Deng Yi?"
"Deng Yi? The one from the Deng family?" They all knew Deng Yi's name. He had a good relationship with Gu Jinghe and Su Yanqiu. He didn't talk much on weekdays, but he was very careful in his work. However, Gu Jingyan had never met Deng Yi, and her impression of him was still that they went out together a few years ago and he protected her.
"Yes, it's the eldest grandson of the Deng family." Ruanruan said to Gu Jingyan, "Cousin, have you ever thought about what kind of person you want to find?"
Gu Jingyan's job is quite special. She either needs to find someone who shares her ideals or someone who is willing to take care of the family for her. Otherwise, her marriage will not last long. If it is the former, then Deng Yi is just right. Both of them work to protect the country. But if it is the latter, it will be difficult, unless she finds a gigolo. As long as the Gu family does not fall, that person will not dare to do anything bad to her. But people's hearts are hard to change.
"I haven't thought about that yet. We have to have similar interests." She hadn't thought about what kind of person she wanted to find before Ruanruan asked her. Now that she was asked, she thought about it seriously, but couldn't think of a specific one. However, she knew that she wanted to find someone who supported her work.
"In this case, you and Deng Yi are a good match. You are both defending your country, but he relies on his physical strength, while you rely on your brain and your talking skills. If there is a chance in the future and you become famous, you can be a good story as a couple." Ruanruan imagined them standing on the stage of the United Nations together. It was so cool.
When Gu Jingyan was talking softly, he also imagined it and thought it was pretty good. "Okay, then it's him."
Seeing that their cousin agreed, the others also started to make a noise, "Jingyan, why don't you consider it?"
"Yes, Jingyan, there are several single people in their team. You can take a look at the others."
"I think Deng Yi is pretty good, sister. You should go talk to your second aunt, and then ask your brother-in-law to ask Deng Yi and see what he thinks." Chaoxi thought of the process of her and Su Yanqiu meeting each other, and felt that her sister really had the potential to be a matchmaker.
"Chaoxi is right. Today is a good opportunity. Let's go and ask first. If it works out, it's fine. If not, we can just switch." Jiang Yuli also felt that Deng Yi was okay and could be a good companion for Gu Jingyan. But if he didn't want to, Gu Jinghe and his team were all there, so Gu Jingyan could just choose one by one without having to make another appointment.
"Okay then." Ruanruan was also a decisive person. Seeing that Gu Jingyan agreed, she looked at the watch and saw that it was only 10:30, which was just the right time. She got up and went straight to the kitchen.
At this time, Huo Haocheng and his team had already set up the oven and were starting to pickle the fish.