The leader is my girlfriend

Chapter 358: Book Friends Meeting (5)

This is another comprehensive calculation problem combining arts and sciences. Both men and women measure their own value with a full score of 10. There is a requirement that it must be 10 points both at home and outside.

In the past, it was like this: lesbians got 10 points at home, gays got 10 points outside, exactly 10 points each inside and outside.

However, with the progress and development of the times, lesbians have demonstrated their abilities and values ​​in the social field, and new forms of internal and external distribution have emerged...

The current situation is: lesbians get 5 points at home and 5 points outside. Do you think gay men still get 10 points outside? A family is shared by two people. Once you step forward, you have to take some of it back. The original situation must be adjusted and restrained.

You can get 5 points outside and 5 points at home; you can get 6 points outside and 4 points at home; you can also get 7 points outside and 3 points at home... But you can't still think of getting 10 points outside and 0 points at home like in the past. This is obviously not realistic.

If you accept the changes in society, then you have to change with it. Of course, you can also find a partner who doesn't have a job, a lesbian who can be a good housewife, and live the traditional lifestyle you have always wanted, with the man working outside and the woman staying at home.

Comrade, I may be a bit long-winded, but do you think there's a grain of truth in my words? In the future, there will be fewer and fewer unemployed women. Women hold up half the sky, and we are all working hard to build a new China.

There was applause in the conference hall for a long time... Wang Huaichun began to think about this problem. It seemed that he had been really narrow-minded before.

At the same time, his cousin Wang Huaiqiu's pen was about to smoke from writing. He felt that this notebook could be exchanged for at least half a year's pocket money. One sister gave him half a year, and then he finished it in a year.

Wang Yiming concluded, "Dear, lovely comrades, our gender equality is not just an empty slogan. Behind it, countless people have made countless efforts.

The Ming Dynasty has passed, and the Qing Dynasty has also fallen. We must rely on our own efforts to remove this smelly, hard, dirty, and long foot binding cloth that symbolizes feudal ethics and shackles women. So, let's work together, fellow book lovers!

Wang Huaichun stood up, a look of guilt on his face. "I'm sorry, my question just now was a bit rash. You're right, I understand. To be honest, just today, my partner and I had a conflict over who will take care of the family after we get married."

So, in the heat of the moment, I raised those doubts. Thinking about it now, I'm truly ashamed, and I solemnly apologize to everyone. At the same time, I think... well, I should hurry back and apologize to my partner. So, goodbye for now.

Wang Yiming looked at Liu Miaomiao and asked, "How about it?"

Liu Miaomiao received the message, turned to look at the apologetic Wang Huaichun, smiled and shouted, "Comrade, I wish you success in coaxing your partner back. Remember to take the signed book with you!"

Following this heartwarming blessing, a burst of good-natured laughter and applause rang out from the audience, and thus, a tense and intense mini-debate filled with intellectual collisions came to an end...

The atmosphere of the following Q&A session became much more relaxed and gentle, with book lovers expressing their opinions freely.

"Assistant comrade, I have a question to ask you, is that okay?" A female comrade looked at Wang Yiming with a hint of timidity, with a hint of expectation in her eyes.

Wang Yiming smiled and nodded, responding gently, "Of course, go ahead."

The woman took a deep breath and mustered her courage to speak. "I'm a freshman medical student. Right after military training, someone advised me to give up on studying medicine, saying that girls aren't suited to the medical profession. I... felt very uncomfortable hearing that."

Wang Yiming was slightly startled at first, then he answered in a joking manner, "Classmate, you can't argue with a fool."

The female comrade burst out laughing at Wang Yiming's humorous words, and her mood seemed to be much more relaxed in an instant.

Wang Yiming spoke again, her voice low and slow, but with a hint of pleading, "You know, today's society is constantly progressing and developing. We need more and more outstanding women like you to bravely stand up and take up important positions in all walks of life. Then, set an example for more women and fight for the equal rights and fair treatment they deserve."

"Thank you."

When a question about equality arises, slightly more pointed questions will be asked.

"I have a question, too." A chubby female lesbian raised her hand. Seeing Wang Yiming nod, she quickly asked, "What should I do if a gay man verbally or physically harasses me?"

Wang Yiming answered without hesitation, "Scold him back, curse him back mercilessly to his face, don't back down or give in, even if it means calling the police, don't be afraid of trouble.

Many people may think that less trouble is worse than more, and that it will pass if they just endure it. However, this is not the case. If you blindly give in, it will only make those with bad intentions more unscrupulous and make further advances.

The initial bullying and taking advantage will not be done openly. They will start with a little bit of probing, and then roughly guess where your tolerance limit is. Once they succeed, they will intensify the bullying and oppression, and may even threaten you in return because of your previous concessions.

People will take advantage of you. They will bully you because they think you are easy to bully, and they will choose to get close to you because they think they can take advantage of you.

Because for such people, success means their plan has come true, and failure has no impact and they don’t lose anything.

On the contrary, lesbians with aggressive personalities are rarely harassed. Why is that? The reason is simple: the price to pay for provoking them is simply too high. Not only is it likely to cause trouble for yourself, but the incident could also become public knowledge, which would make the bad guys feel that the cost outweighs the benefits.

If you haven't dared to resist in the past, that's okay. You must learn to protect yourself in the future, just like a hedgehog. If someone says something bad about you because of this, it only means that they haven't taken advantage of you. Let them be sour, don't be wronged.

The question continues, and let’s add a topic that has existed since ancient times - parental orders.

"What if your family forces you to get married and you don't want to?"

Wang Yiming did not grow up under the brainwashing of family theory. On the contrary, he grew up in a state of convulsion. He stood on the shoulders of giants and refreshed his three views before traveling through time.

"If you can survive on your own, then decisively refuse. No matter how much pressure you put on yourself, don't compromise. And don't think that after you compromise, you'll end up living a miserable life to prove your parents wrong and make them regret it.

Then there is something wrong with your thinking. What if your parents regret it? It's just a light-hearted statement, but you can only pay for your own life and know your own ups and downs.

It will never be a desperate situation at any point. If you can't refuse, just run away. If they care about you, they won't force you. Since they don't care about you, why should you care about them and consider their face?

But... you also need to analyze rationally, who is right and who is wrong? Maybe your family is afraid that you will go down the wrong path and let you get married, or maybe you chose someone who is obviously a jerk.

Just because someone is nice to you doesn't mean they are really nice. You should choose someone who is good themselves. Love can't be guaranteed to last forever, but kindness is something that's innate. Of course, stay away from people who are too kind to be true.

Kick it away, don't be soft-hearted