Chapter 260 Chen Xiaofeng's Rebellious Period
Chapter 260 Chen Xiaofeng's Rebellious Period
Ruan Xiaofeng entered puberty, and it seemed that overnight, the once well-behaved and obedient child developed his own little temper.
One day after school, Ruan Xiaofeng returned home, threw his schoolbag on the sofa, and went straight into his room, closing the door with a bang. Lin Yanan heard the loud noise and poked her head out of the kitchen, her face full of confusion.
At dinner time, Lin Yanan carefully knocked on Ruan Xiaofeng's door: "Xiaofeng, come out for dinner." There was no response from the room. Lin Yanan gently pushed the door open and saw Ruan Xiaofeng lying on the bed with his back to the door and earphones in his ears.
Lin Yanan walked to the bedside and patted his shoulder gently. Ruan Xiaofeng turned over impatiently and frowned: "Don't bother me!" Lin Yanan's face flashed a trace of helplessness, but he still patiently said: "Eat first, and we can talk after dinner if there is anything."
Ruan Xiaofeng sat up reluctantly, walked to the dining table with his head down, sat down, picked up the chopsticks and ate the food randomly. Ruan Jianan looked at him and said with a smile: "What's the matter, young man, who made you unhappy?" Ruan Xiaofeng rolled his eyes at his father and said unhappily: "No one made me unhappy, I just feel annoyed!"
Ruan Jianan and Lin Yanan looked at each other, their eyes full of worry.
After dinner, Ruan Jianan pulled Ruan Xiaofeng to sit on the sofa and tried to have a heart-to-heart talk with him. Ruan Jianan said gently: "Xiaofeng, you seem to be in a bad mood recently. Can you talk to your dad?" Ruan Xiaofeng crossed his arms in front of his chest, turned his head away, and muttered: "There's nothing to say."
Ruan Jianan was not angry, but sighed softly: "Son, Dad knows that you are now in adolescence and may have a lot of your own thoughts and feelings. But if you shut yourself off like this, Mom and Dad will be very worried."
The corners of Ruan Xiaofeng's mouth twitched slightly, as if he wanted to say something, but in the end he did not open his mouth.
On the weekend, Ruan Jianan and Lin Yanan decided to take Ruan Xiaofeng to the park to relax. The park was sunny, with green grass and colorful flowers. Lin Yanan pointed to a blooming rose and said, "Xiaofeng, look how beautiful this flower is." Ruan Xiaofeng just glanced at it and said nothing.
As they walked, they came to the lake. Dad pointed at the ducks playing on the lake and said, "Xiaofeng, look how happy those little ducks are." Ruan Xiaofeng remained silent.
Lin Yanan couldn't help it and pulled Ruan Xiaofeng's hand: "Child, what's wrong with you? If you don't communicate with us like this, we really don't know what to do." As she spoke, the mother's eyes became red.
Ruan Xiaofeng felt sorry for his mother when he saw she was about to cry. He lowered his head and whispered, "I just feel like you guys don't understand me and you're always controlling me."
Ruan Jianan said quickly: "Son, we don't want to control you, we want to care about you and help you. Maybe our way is wrong, so can you tell us what you want us to do?"
Ruan Xiaofeng raised his head, looked at his parents, and hesitated for a moment: "I hope you can listen to my ideas more and not always arrange my life according to your wishes."
Ruan Jianan. Lin Yanan nodded. Ruan Jianan: "Okay, son, we will pay attention to it in the future. First of all, we will respect your privacy and will not look through your things or ask about your secrets at will. Secondly, when you express your opinions, we will listen carefully, not interrupt or criticize, and wait until you finish speaking before expressing our opinions. In addition, we will find more topics that interest you, such as your favorite music, movies or sports, so that our communication will be more relaxed and enjoyable."
Lin Yanan continued, "Yes, child. We will also control our emotions. Even if we disagree, we will not lose our temper immediately. Instead, we will discuss with you calmly. Moreover, we will give you more opportunities to make your own choices so that you can try things according to your own ideas."
Ruan Xiaofeng finally smiled and nodded: "Okay!"
Since then, Ruan Jianan and Lin Yanan have paid more attention to understanding Ruan Xiaofeng's psychological changes, and every time before expressing their opinions, they will patiently listen to his ideas. Ruan Xiaofeng is no longer so rebellious, and will take the initiative to communicate with his parents when encountering problems.
One night, after finishing his homework, Ruan Xiaofeng came to the living room and saw his parents watching TV. He walked over and sat between them, saying with a smile, "Mom and Dad, an interesting thing happened to me at school today." Ruan Jianan and Lin Yanan listened to his story attentively with happy smiles on their faces.
The atmosphere at home became more and more warm, and Ruan Xiaofeng successfully passed through adolescence in this environment full of understanding and love.
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